I want to express my self over this issue for I have been silent about
it , Not because I have not been pressed by the accusation for along time but
because I have explored all reasons and do believe that all are
contributors to it but the greatest responsibility is that Women are
challenging our good morals publicly. I would like to ask the Question. What do
you expect to see when a stronger Sex is provoked by a weaker Sex? I
have come to agree with my conscious that for such along time , Men
have been seen in the limelight as CHEATERS, Yes Men are cheaters and we
do agree that we have been cheating , However, This has been made an
accusation towards men and I would like to so ask, Have men abandoned
the women and are now cheating with animals? or have they abandoned women
and are all cheating with fellow MEN. I pose this question because I do
believe that as much as it has been purportedly said that Men cheat and
we are all seen as the same in the eyes of women, I should articulately
say it that there are millions of women out there who, even when they
know that I kakaire Wilber, I am married or dating Kembabazi Gloria,
even if she is their best friend, They are ready to sleep with me and
will make it a point to tempt and coarse me to do so. This makes me think that Men are put in a
position where their good morality is being challenged by women in
society. Shall we then be subjected to criticism if we are successfully
tempted by women?.
I would like to pose the question I first
asked. What do you expect to see when stronger sex is provoked by a
weaker sex.? As much as we are all humans, Men have been wired
positively so that They can be attracted to women who are wired
Negatively , Don't quote me wrongly with the phrases of positivity and
negativity but just to drive the point of attraction to each other. Now
women have exploited the weakness of Men by provoking us sexually and
this is not about to stop. If there was a point in time I have thought
so strongly of sleeping with a girl then perhaps she has crossed my eyes
and her dress code is sexually provocative and trust me is the timing,
Environment and all factors are favorable... Then the stronger sex will
be a weaker sex having been touched at a very weak point will subdue. Is
that what we call Taking advantage of Women. Who has taken advantage of
the other here?. I should say , It takes more than a man under such an environment not to cheat. I
therefore would like the women to take responsibility and know that
this is not our way but their war to fight with themselves. As men we
have been fighting and its evidenced when we undress badly dressed girls
in public places to protect our families, we don't want to cheat but
you are forcing us to do so. As much as there are many factors that do
lead to cheating, I believe within my environment, A girl sexually
provocative on the streets where every man is watching is such a
precedent towards your Man cheating.